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Grief Therapy in Etobicoke Room for grief, at your pace

Compassionate support for bereavement, pregnancy loss, breakups and the changes no one prepares you for. Meet in person at our calm clinic on Lake Shore or online anywhere in Ontario, with a therapist you choose.

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About grief therapy

What is grief therapy?

There is no timeline for grief, and no wrong way to carry it.

Grief is the natural response to losing someone or something that mattered. It can show up as sadness, but also as numbness, anger, guilt, relief, exhaustion, trouble sleeping or a fog that makes everyday tasks feel heavy. There is no correct timeline and no right way to grieve, and grief rarely moves in neat stages.

Many people carry grief quietly, especially once the people around them have moved on. Grief therapy offers a dedicated place to talk about your loss, remember who or what you lost, and make sense of how life looks now.

The many shapes of loss

Grief is not only about death. Our therapists support people through:

  • The death of a parent, partner, child, sibling, friend or pet
  • Anticipatory grief while caring for someone who is ill or declining
  • Pregnancy loss, stillbirth, infant loss and infertility
  • Breakups, separation and divorce
  • Non death losses like a job, a home, your health, a friendship or the future you imagined
  • Sudden, traumatic or complicated losses that are hard to put into words

How grief therapy can help

Therapy does not try to make grief disappear or rush you toward closure. Instead, your therapist helps you make room for it, without telling you how you should feel. Sessions might involve telling the story of your loss, working through guilt or regret, finding ways to stay connected to the person you lost, and rebuilding routines and relationships around the loss. Approaches such as Emotion-Focused Therapy, Narrative Therapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy and mindfulness can help you hold painful feelings while still moving toward what matters to you.

Sometimes grief gets stuck. If months or years have passed and the loss still feels as sharp as the first day, or daily life has become hard to manage, you may be experiencing what is sometimes called complicated or prolonged grief. A therapist can help you understand what is happening and find a way forward at a pace that feels safe.

Grief across cultures and families

How we mourn is shaped by culture, faith, family and community. Some families grieve openly and together, others privately, and many people find themselves caught between traditions or grieving far from home. Our therapists offer sessions in English, Cantonese, Mandarin, Hindi, Urdu, Punjabi, Spanish and Polish, and they approach your beliefs and rituals with respect and curiosity.

A quiet place to land

Our clinic on Lake Shore Boulevard West was designed to feel calm and comfortable, with soft light, natural wood and hot drinks on hand. Some people want to grieve away from a home where the loss is everywhere, while others prefer the comfort of video sessions. Both are welcome. When you reach out, we reply within 24 hours and recommend therapists who support grief and loss. You can book a 15-minute phone consult with one or more of them and choose the person who feels right.

Signs you might benefit from grief support

Grief is not a disorder, and you do not need a reason beyond your loss to reach out. You might find support helpful if you are:

  • Feeling numb, foggy or disconnected since your loss
  • Caught off guard by waves of sadness, anger or guilt
  • Struggling to sleep, eat or keep up with work and daily life
  • Avoiding reminders of the loss, or unable to think of anything else
  • Feeling alone because others seem to have moved on
  • Grieving a loss others do not recognize, like a pregnancy, a relationship or a future you planned
  • Caring for someone who is ill and already grieving what is changing
  • Noticing that time has passed but the pain has not shifted
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Kinds of loss we support

Every loss is different. Here are some of the experiences our therapists help people work through.

Some approaches our therapists use

There is no single way to grieve, and no single way to support it. Your therapist will draw on approaches that suit you and explain how they work along the way.

  • Emotion-Focused Therapy

    Make room for sadness, anger and longing, and understand what your emotions need.

  • Narrative Therapy

    Tell the story of your loss and your relationship in your own words, and find meaning in it.

  • Attachment-Based Therapy

    Explore how your bond with the person you lost shapes your grief, and find ways to carry that connection forward.

  • Somatic Therapy

    Notice where grief lives in your body, like exhaustion or tightness, and find gentle ways to steady yourself when waves arrive.

  • Gestalt Therapy

    Say what was left unsaid to the person you lost, through gentle exercises that bring your feelings into the present moment.

  • Internal Family Systems

    Get to know the parts of you that are hurting, protecting or holding on, with compassion.

  • Acceptance and Commitment Therapy

    Carry grief alongside the things that still matter, without forcing painful feelings away.

  • Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing

    A structured approach that uses bilateral stimulation to help process painful or traumatic memories of a loss. Available with select therapists on our team.

What to expect

From your first message to ongoing sessions, here is how grief therapy works at Thought & Feeling.

  1. Send an inquiry

    Fill in the form below or call (647) 499-0440. Share as much or as little as you like. We reply within 24 hours.

  2. Choose your therapist

    We recommend therapists who support grief and loss. Book a 15-minute phone consult with one or more of them and choose who feels right.

  3. Your first session

    Your therapist will get to know you and your loss. You decide what to share and when, with no pressure to tell the whole story at once.

  4. Moving forward

    Sessions follow a rhythm that suits you, weekly, every other week or around anniversaries and hard dates. You can adjust any time.

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In person or online, your choice

  • In person on Lake Shore

    Meet in our calm clinic at 3515 Lake Shore Blvd W, with soft light, comfortable seating and hot drinks on hand.

  • Video sessions

    Secure video sessions through Jane from anywhere in Ontario, including from home on harder days.

  • Phone sessions

    Talk from wherever you feel most comfortable, no camera needed.

Fees and insurance

$170 to $190

Per 50-minute individual session, depending on your therapist. No tax is charged on psychotherapy sessions.

Please note: Always check directly with your insurance provider to confirm your coverage. We share general information to help you plan, but your plan decides what is covered.

  • Covered by many extended health plans for Registered Psychotherapists and Registered Social Workers
  • A receipt after every session for your benefits provider
  • No referral needed to get started
  • Cancel or reschedule free of charge with 24 hours notice

Grief therapy questions

When is the right time to start grief therapy?

There is no right or wrong time. Some people reach out within weeks of a loss, others years later when grief resurfaces. If you are wondering whether it might help, that is reason enough to ask.

How do I know if my grief is normal?

Grief looks different for everyone, and intense feelings are a natural part of loss. If your grief feels stuck, is getting in the way of daily life or feels like too much to carry alone, talking with a therapist can help you understand what you are experiencing.

Can you help with pregnancy loss or infertility?

Yes. Several therapists on our team support people through pregnancy loss, stillbirth, infant loss and infertility, and bring care and sensitivity to losses that often go unrecognized. Partners are welcome too.

Can I come for grief that is not about a death?

Absolutely. Breakups, divorce, estrangement, job loss, a move, a health diagnosis or a future that looks different than you planned can all bring real grief. You do not need to justify your loss to deserve support.

Will therapy make me move on?

The goal is not to forget or move on from who or what you lost. Grief therapy helps you find ways to carry your loss, stay connected to what mattered and rebuild a life around it, at your own pace.

Can my family come to sessions together?

Yes. Some therapists on our team offer family sessions for families who are grieving together. You can also start on your own and invite family members later. Ask during your consult.

What if I am in crisis?

We are not a crisis service. If you are thinking about ending your life or are in immediate danger, call or text 988 or go to the nearest emergency department.

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