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Parenting Therapy in Etobicoke You care for everyone. This is for you.

Support for parents and caregivers who are stretched thin, second-guessing themselves or stuck in the same arguments at home. Meet in person at our calm Lake Shore clinic or online anywhere in Ontario, and work on parenting stress and the hard moments with a therapist you choose.

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About parenting therapy

What is parenting therapy?

Struggling as a parent does not mean you are failing as one.

Parenting can be full of love and still be exhausting. You might be managing school forms, work deadlines, meals, big feelings and everyone’s schedule, while carrying a quiet worry that you are getting it wrong. When there is little room left for you, patience can run out quickly, and guilt tends to fill the gap.

Parenting therapy, also called parenting counselling, is support for you as a parent or caregiver, whether you are a birth, adoptive or step-parent, a grandparent or anyone else raising a child. Your child does not need to be struggling, and they do not need to attend. The focus is on your stress, your reactions, your experience of the role and what you want home to feel like.

What parents often bring to therapy

  • Feeling overwhelmed, short-tempered or constantly behind
  • Parent burnout and the sense of running on empty
  • The mental load of remembering, planning and worrying for everyone
  • Guilt, comparison and the pressure to get everything right
  • Everyday standoffs over bedtime, screens, homework and getting out the door
  • Tantrums, meltdowns and big feelings that leave everyone worn out
  • Co-parenting during or after a separation
  • Blended families, and finding your place in a new household
  • Raising a neurodivergent child, and advocating for them at school and beyond
  • Parenting a teen who is pulling away, and working out what they need now
  • Noticing your own upbringing show up in how you parent

How your own upbringing shows up

Many parents find themselves saying the words they swore they never would, or reacting to their child with a force that surprises them. Children can stir up old feelings from your own childhood, and that is not a flaw. With a therapist, you can look at what you learned growing up, what you want to carry forward and what you would like to do differently, including when cultural expectations or several generations are part of the picture.

Practical parent coaching

Some parents want space to talk. Others want something concrete to try on Tuesday night. Select therapists on our team offer parent coaching, which is practical support around routines, limits, tough moments and responding to big feelings in a way that fits your child and your values. Unlike a parenting class, the ideas are built around your child, your home and what you have already tried. Your therapist will not hand you one right way to parent. You can use your sessions for reflection, practical ideas or a mix of both.

Co-parenting through a separation

Separation changes how you parent, often while you are grieving, adjusting and trying to keep things steady for your kids. On your own, you can work on staying calm through pick-ups and drop-offs, keeping children out of the middle and deciding what is worth raising with your co-parent. Select therapists on our team can also see co-parents together. Therapy is different from a custody assessment or mediation, so if a court, lawyer or agency is involved or has asked for a report, please tell us before you book and we will let you know what is possible.

When your child or whole family is the focus

If your child or teen would benefit from a space of their own, our Child & Teen Therapy page explains how that works. Select therapists see children from age 3. If the pattern involves everyone at home, our Family Therapy page covers how family sessions work. If you have a new baby, our Postpartum Therapy page covers pregnancy, birth and early parenthood. Parenting therapy can sit alongside any of these, and your therapist can help you think through what makes sense for your family.

An hour that belongs to you

Our clinic on Lake Shore Boulevard West in Etobicoke was designed to feel calm from the moment you walk in, with soft light, natural wood, comfortable chairs and a hot drink you might actually finish while it is warm. We are open seven days a week, with evening and weekend appointments. If getting out the door is too much this week, video and phone sessions are available anywhere in Ontario.

When you reach out, we reply within 24 hours on business days and recommend a selection of therapists who may fit your needs. You can book a free 15-minute phone consult with one or more of them and choose who feels right.

We are not a crisis service. If you or your child are in immediate danger, or you are thinking about harming yourself, call or text 988 or go to the nearest emergency department.

Signs you might benefit from parenting support

You do not need a crisis, a diagnosis or a child in distress to reach out. You might recognize some of these experiences:

  • Snapping at your kids, then feeling guilty about it later
  • Having nothing left by the end of the day
  • Carrying most of the planning, remembering and worrying for your household
  • Getting stuck in the same arguments over bedtime, screens or school
  • Disagreeing with a co-parent about rules, routines or how to respond
  • Feeling unsure how to support a neurodivergent child or a struggling teen
  • Hearing your own parents in the way you speak to your kids
  • Losing track of who you are outside of being a parent
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What parents bring to us

Every family is different. Here are some of the experiences therapists on our team help parents work through.

Some approaches our therapists use

There is no single right way to parent, and no single way to support a parent. Your therapist will draw on approaches that suit you and explain how they work along the way.

  • Solution-Focused Therapy

    Focus on what is already working at home and build small, realistic next steps for the moments that feel hardest.

  • Compassion-Focused Therapy

    Quiet the inner critic that keeps score of every mistake, and offer yourself the same patience you try to give your kids.

  • Attachment-Based Therapy

    Understand how your early relationships shape the way you respond to your child, and strengthen a connection that leaves room for repair.

  • Cognitive Behavioural Therapy

    Notice the thoughts behind guilt, comparison and overwhelm, and practise steadier responses in real, everyday parenting moments.

  • Mindfulness-Based Approaches

    Find a pause between the trigger and your reaction, so you can meet hard moments at home with more choice.

  • Internal Family Systems

    Get to know the parts of you that yell, worry or try to do it all, and what each one needs.

  • Structural Family Therapy

    Look at the roles, rules and alliances at home, which can help co-parents and blended families find a steadier structure.

  • Acceptance and Commitment Therapy

    Make room for the hard feelings of parenting while making choices guided by the kind of parent you want to be.

What to expect

From your first message to ongoing sessions, here is how parenting therapy works at Thought & Feeling.

  1. Send an inquiry

    Fill in the form below or call (647) 499-0440. Share as much or as little as you like. We reply within 24 hours on business days.

  2. Choose your therapist

    We recommend a selection of therapists who may fit your needs. Book a free 15-minute phone consult with one or more of them and choose who feels right.

  3. Your first session

    Your therapist will get to know you, your family and what feels hardest right now. You set the pace, and there is no judgment about how things have been going.

  4. Moving forward

    Together you will set goals and try ideas between sessions. You choose a rhythm that suits your household, weekly, every other week or as needed, and you can adjust any time.

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In person or online, your choice

  • In person on Lake Shore

    Step away for an hour in our calm, light-filled clinic at 3515 Lake Shore Blvd W, with hot drinks waiting. We are open seven days a week, with evening and weekend appointments.

  • Video sessions

    Secure video sessions through Jane from anywhere in Ontario, including during nap time or after bedtime.

  • Phone sessions

    Talk from wherever you feel most comfortable, no camera needed.

Therapists who support parents

Therapists on our team support parenting stress, co-parenting and parent coaching. Filter by language or availability to find someone who feels like the right fit.

Every situation is different. Other therapists on our team may also be a good fit, so we confirm fit case by case and you can book a free 15-minute consult before deciding.

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Fees and insurance

$170 to $190

Per 50-minute individual session, depending on your therapist, with longer sessions available as needed at a proportionate rate. Family sessions are $220 to $245. If you would like to attend with a co-parent, ask us about rates. No tax is charged on psychotherapy sessions.

Please note: Always check directly with your insurance provider to confirm your coverage. We share general information to help you plan, but your plan decides what is covered.

  • Covered by many extended health plans for Registered Psychotherapists and Registered Social Workers
  • We do not direct bill: pay for each session, then submit your receipt to your insurer
  • No referral needed to get started
  • Cancel or reschedule free of charge with 24 hours notice

Parenting therapy questions

Does my child need to come to parenting therapy?

No. Parenting therapy is for you as a parent or caregiver, and your child does not attend. If you decide your child or family would benefit from sessions too, your therapist can talk through those options with you.

Do things need to be really bad before I reach out?

No. There is no threshold you need to meet. If parenting feels heavier than you would like, or you want to think through something before it grows, that is a good enough reason.

What is parent coaching, and how is it different from therapy?

Parent coaching is practical, goal-focused support for specific challenges, like routines, limits and tough moments at home. Therapy makes more room for your own stress, history and feelings. Many parents want some of each. Select therapists on our team offer parent coaching, so let us know if this is what you are looking for.

Can my partner or co-parent come with me?

Yes, with select therapists on our team. You can attend together, including if you are separated, or you can start on your own and invite them later. Ask about this when you reach out.

Can you help if I am raising a neurodivergent child?

Yes. Select therapists on our team have experience with ADHD and autism in children and can support you as a parent. You can talk about your child's needs, your own stress and how to advocate for them.

How do I know if my child needs their own therapist?

If your child's distress is affecting school, friendships, sleep or daily life, it may help for them to have their own therapist. Our Child & Teen Therapy page explains how that works, and if the whole household is affected, Family Therapy may be a better fit.

Will I be judged for how things have been at home?

No. Your therapist is there to understand what has been happening, not to grade your parenting, and many parents arrive worried about exactly this. Sessions are confidential, with a few exceptions set by law, such as a concern that a child is at risk of harm. Your therapist will explain these at the start.

Is parenting therapy covered by insurance?

Many extended health plans cover psychotherapy with a Registered Psychotherapist or Registered Social Worker, but coverage varies, so contact your insurance plan directly to confirm yours. We do not direct bill: you pay for each session and submit your receipt to your insurer.

Please note: Always check directly with your insurance provider to confirm your coverage. We share general information to help you plan, but your plan decides what is covered.

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