2SLGBTQIA+ Affirming Therapy in Etobicoke Therapy where you can be yourself
Affirming, identity-informed therapy for 2SLGBTQIA+ people and the relationships that matter to them. Meet in person at our Lake Shore clinic or online across Ontario, with a therapist you choose.


About affirming therapy
What is affirming therapy?
You should never have to explain who you are before you can talk about how you are.
2SLGBTQIA+ affirming therapy respects and celebrates your identity. Your sexual orientation, your gender and the way you build relationships are not problems to fix or explain away. In affirming therapy, you do not have to educate your therapist about who you are before you can talk about what is actually on your mind.
Some people come to us to explore identity. Others come for anxiety, depression, trauma, relationships or work stress and simply want a therapist who understands the whole of their life. Both are welcome.
Affirming therapy also recognizes that identity is one part of a bigger picture. Your culture, faith, family, body, work and community all shape your experience, and your therapist will hold all of it with care.
What affirming therapy can look like
Your therapist will follow your lead, use your name and pronouns, and take an identity-informed view of what you are going through. Sessions might focus on:
- Exploring sexual orientation or gender identity, with no pressure to arrive at a label
- Coming out, or deciding whether, when and how to come out
- Gender dysphoria, gender euphoria and social, legal or medical transition
- Relationships of every shape, including queer, polyamorous and ethically non-monogamous relationships
- Family acceptance, rejection or estrangement, and building chosen family
- Holding your identity alongside culture, faith and religion
Minority stress and why it matters
Living in a world that is not always safe or welcoming takes a toll. Minority stress describes the extra weight that comes from discrimination, being misgendered, hiding parts of yourself or bracing for how others might react. Many people also carry the effects of growing up feeling different, or of messages from family or faith communities that who they are is wrong. Over time this can show up as anxiety, low mood, exhaustion or difficulty trusting others. Therapy can help you name that weight, work through past hurt, including religious trauma, and build support and self-compassion that do not depend on anyone else’s approval.
Support through transition
For trans, nonbinary and gender diverse clients, therapy can be a space to explore your gender, prepare for conversations with family or at work, and work through the emotions that come with each step. Our therapists provide therapy and emotional support. We are not a medical clinic and do not provide medical assessments. If you have specific needs related to transition, ask during your consult and we will be clear about what we can offer.
A clinic built on belonging
Thought & Feeling is a woman-owned, POC-owned and 2SLGBTQIA+ affirming clinic. Several therapists on our team focus on queer, trans and nonbinary mental health, and some share lived experience. Our team offers sessions in eight languages, so you can find someone who understands how your identity meets your culture and community. When you reach out, we reply within 24 hours and recommend therapists who may fit what you are looking for, so you can book 15-minute phone consults and choose who feels right.
Signs you might benefit from affirming support
You do not need a crisis to reach out. You might find therapy helpful if you are:
- Questioning your sexual orientation or gender identity
- Thinking about coming out, or coping with how it went
- Experiencing gender dysphoria or exploring transition
- Feeling anxious, low or on guard in spaces that do not feel safe
- Struggling with family members who are not accepting
- Carrying hurt from religious or cultural communities
- Navigating a relationship that does not follow traditional scripts
- Feeling isolated or searching for community and chosen family

What we support
Our affirming therapists support 2SLGBTQIA+ clients with identity-related concerns and with everything else life brings.
Identity exploration
Making sense of sexual orientation and gender identity at your own pace, without labels you do not want.
Coming out
Deciding whether, when and how to come out, and coping with the responses.
Gender identity and dysphoria
Support for trans, nonbinary and gender diverse people, including through social and medical transition.
Relationships
Queer relationships, polyamory and ethically non-monogamous relationships, without judgement.
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Minority stress
The toll of discrimination, misgendering and always being on guard.
Family acceptance
Rejection, estrangement and repair with family, and building chosen family.
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Culture, faith and religious trauma
Holding identity alongside culture and faith, and healing from religious harm.
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Depression and low mood
Heaviness, loneliness and exhaustion, understood in the context of your identity.
Some approaches our therapists use
Affirming care is a foundation, not a single technique. Your therapist will draw on approaches that suit you and your goals, and explain how they work along the way.
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Person-Centred Therapy
You are the expert on your own life. Your therapist offers warmth, respect and curiosity, not judgement.
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Narrative Therapy
Separate yourself from the stories others have told about you and write your own.
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Internal Family Systems
Meet the parts of you shaped by hiding or rejection with understanding and care.
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Acceptance and Commitment Therapy
Move toward a life that reflects your values, even when others do not understand.
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Emotion-Focused Therapy
Make room for grief, anger and joy, and learn what your emotions are telling you.
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Compassion-Focused Therapy
Soften shame and self-criticism, and build a kinder inner voice.
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Attachment-Based Therapy
Explore how family, chosen family and past relationships shape the way you connect, and build relationships where you feel safe.
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Somatic Therapy
Notice how years of staying on guard may live in your body, and find ways to feel more at ease and at home in it.
What to expect
From your first message to ongoing sessions, here is how affirming therapy works at Thought & Feeling.
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Send an inquiry
Fill in the form below or call (647) 499-0440. Share your name and pronouns if you like. We reply within 24 hours.
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Choose your therapist
We recommend affirming therapists who may fit your needs. Book a 15-minute phone consult with one or more of them and choose who feels right.
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Your first session
Your therapist will get to know you and what brings you in. You decide what to share and when.
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Moving forward
Together you will set goals and a rhythm that suits you, weekly, every other week or as needed. You can adjust any time.

In person or online, your choice
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In person on Lake Shore
Meet in our calm, welcoming clinic at 3515 Lake Shore Blvd W, with the 507 Long Branch streetcar and parking right out front.
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Video sessions
Secure video sessions through Jane from anywhere in Ontario, from whatever space feels private and safe.
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Phone sessions
Talk from wherever you feel most comfortable, no camera needed.
Therapists who offer affirming care
Several therapists on our team focus on 2SLGBTQIA+ mental health, and some share lived experience. Filter by language or availability to find someone who feels like the right fit.
Every situation is different. Other therapists on our team may also be a good fit, so we confirm fit case by case and you can book a free 15-minute consult before deciding.
Fees and insurance
$170 to $190
Per 50-minute individual session, depending on your therapist. No tax is charged on psychotherapy sessions.
Please note: Always check directly with your insurance provider to confirm your coverage. We share general information to help you plan, but your plan decides what is covered.
- Covered by many extended health plans for Registered Psychotherapists and Registered Social Workers
- A receipt after every session for your benefits provider
- No referral needed to get started
- Cancel or reschedule free of charge with 24 hours notice
Affirming therapy questions
What does affirming therapy mean?
It means your therapist sees your sexual orientation, gender identity and relationships as valid, and never as something to change. They use your name and pronouns, understand the impact of minority stress and follow your lead on what you want to work on.
Do I need to know my identity or use a label?
No. Many people come to therapy to explore questions about sexuality or gender without a clear answer. There is no pressure to arrive at a label, or to use one at all.
Do your therapists share lived experience?
Some do. Several therapists on our team focus on queer, trans and nonbinary mental health, and some share lived experience, which they describe in their bios. If this matters to you, mention it in your inquiry and we will keep it in mind when recommending therapists.
Can you support me through transition?
Yes, through therapy and emotional support, such as exploring your gender, planning conversations with family or at work and processing each step. We are not a medical clinic and do not provide medical assessments. If you have specific needs, ask during your consult and we will be clear about what we can offer.
Do you work with queer couples and ethically non-monogamous relationships?
Yes. Therapists on our team work with queer couples and with polyamorous and ethically non-monogamous relationships, without judgement. Individual and couples sessions are both available.
Do you see 2SLGBTQIA+ teens?
Yes. Select therapists on our team work with teens, and parents and caregivers can get support too. Ask during your consult and we will recommend someone who fits.
Is what I share confidential?
Yes. Our therapists follow the confidentiality standards of their regulatory colleges and Ontario privacy law, with a few legal exceptions your therapist will explain. We are not a crisis service. In an emergency, call or text 988 or go to the nearest emergency department.
Get started
Find an affirming therapist
Tell us a little about what you are looking for. We reply within 24 hours with affirming therapists who fit your needs.
New here
Tell us a little about what you are looking for and we will reply within 24 hours to help you find the right therapist.
Fill in the inquiry form- (647) 499-0440
- hello@thoughtandfeeling.ca
- 3515 Lake Shore Blvd W, Etobicoke
- Evening and weekend appointments available
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